It can be said that many religious groups are often the most judgmental people on the face of the Earth. The accuracy of this statement is debatable, but is not far from the truth, I think.
A problem among the church I have seen with my own eyes is a slightly judgmental attitude. All too often, it can be so easy to point a finger at someone because of flaws they may have. We will, even with our subconscious mind, not hesitate to notice and point out the shortcomings of the people next to us, as well as the ones across the room.
MANY PEOPLE, if not everyone, has a fear of judgment. I believe it’s partially out of this fear that we don’t hesitate to point at others. Among friends, it can be a light-hearted remark; Or among strangers, it can be a whisper behind the back. It can give us a sense that our flaws are somehow not as flawed as we fear others may think. In this depressed, self-centered world we live in, it’s important to the individual that they feel, at the very least, equal to the majority of people around them.
The shameful problem we now face is the judgmental attitude that the church can have towards each other, members of other churches, and the unsaved, the latter being the most tragic.
“They should be ashamed of what they’ve done!”
I swear, if I hear the above statement again, I’m moving to Canada.
What we must realize this that we were all members of the guilty party. Imagine: Every single one of us sentenced to death for crimes committed against the king (if “king” isn’t a modern enough term for you, try “emperor”, they mean almost the same thing in modern terminology). Now imagine that the king loves us, loves us so much that he paid the price for the crimes we did against him. Some of us believe the news when we hear about it, and walk out free people under the service of the king once again. Others choose not to believe it, saying things like “I’m not dead yet”, and “It’s just a bunch of lies”. These people are still headed to the same destruction that we were headed for: Hell, an unimaginable place of eternal punishment and torment, because we’re all criminals.
How could a loving God send us to Hell? Because we directly disobey His commands, and the wrongs done must be brought to justice. But the wrongs we’ve done have been justified. Not justified by what we’ve done, but by God Himself. We’re now literally guiltless and blameless before the throne of the Most High.
Our job now is to help those still headed for destruction. Some seem completely unaware of the impending doom, others simply refuse to except, for some illogical reason or another.
Remember that we were saved by the Grace of God, through our Faith in Him.
I dare you, at this point, to look at a man in prison and say “he should be ashamed of what he’s done!” It’s the same way with every person alive. Yes, we should all be ashamed of what we’ve done, but the point isn’t discovering the shame, it’s discovering Salvation. It’s discovering Christ and God Himself.
“I once was lost, but now am found, was blind, but now I see”. If you were born blind, and had a remarkable surgery that gave you eyesight, would you then point and laugh at a blind man struggling to find his way along? If the answer is yes, then I dearly hope you learn to love.
Another example: You and your buddy destroyed a house, with people still inside, and were both sentenced to life in jail. A complete stranger shows up and somehow posts such an unimaginable bail, that the authorities let you and your buddy go. You choose to believe the news, once you hear it, and walk away free. But your buddy remains unconvinced and will continue to rot in prison until it’s too late. What would you do?
Another problem we might have, other than judgmental attitudes, is a not-so-serious attitude towards our previous situation and the situation of the lost around us.
In which case, we must remember that God was serious when he created the world in six days, when he cursed the Earth, when he created each one of us, and when he sent his son to DIE on our behalf. This is not just something nice he did for us, and as I write this post, I find a renewed love for my God and a fresh will to serve.
However, being serious about how “They’re terrible people” is not the seriousness I’m talking about. God loved us, and we’ve been told to love those around us. Brothers should not cast judgment on brothers, but embrace each other in love and compassion.
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Anything good in this post came from God, anything bad came from me, and I’d like to find and fix the bad so I can become a more effective tool in the future.